Author: Pele Odiase

Pele began his education in Nigeria before moving to the UK for a masters degree and subsequently a PhD in computer science. The sharp contrast in life and morals in the UK motivated him to start his blog, a website dedicated to sharing candid and virtuous views to enable individuals and families maximize their potentials in life, relationships and finances.

Code review is an important step in the software development life cycle during which software developers peer review the software in the pipeline on route to production. When done properly, it results in lower numbers of defects and bugs, improve software quality, transfer of knowledge, an atmosphere of team work and collective responsibility with better team cohesion. If badly planned and executed, it leads to strife, bitterness and missed delivery schedules.

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[dropcap]T[/dropcap]o the ordinary, he was just another man with incredibly great strength which no one could fathom. To the hopeful, he was revered and his strength earned him a place as a judge to rule over his people. His judgement however became questionable when he saw what he wanted, wanted what he saw, got what he wanted and what he wanted he saw no more.

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[dropcap]D[/dropcap]o you remember growing up looking forward to the Olympics, Nigeria used to feature in finals and win medals. Names like Innocent Egbunike, Mary Onyali, Fatilat Ogunkoya, Peter Konyegwachie, Oliver Orok, Atanda Musa, Sunday Bada, David Izorinte, the Ezinwa brothers, Olapade Adeneken et al, were household names, not to mention the amazing record breaking exboy Aniefiok Udo. Fast forward 2 decades and the decline is staggering.

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In the multitude of counsel there is safety. Leading an effective and productive development team involves knowing your team, understanding the skills they posses, their strengths, weaknesses experience. A key attribute is the ability to listen to others, respecting the views of every member of the team. Based on varied views and opinion, you make sound judgments with the sole objective of achieving the set objectives to attain the highest possible standard without jeopardising team cohesion. Having an I am always right attitude, not only disrespect members of your team, it also limits the team’s potential to innovate and flourish.…

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Sometimes we do and say the right things but at the end of the day the relationship fails. It is also possible that you invested a lot of time, effort and your heart in the relationship too. Walking away from it can be a very trying emotional experience which may leave a scar and take time to heal. He or she probably was your first love and your soul mate, the time has to come when you let go and move with your life.

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With the rifle’s butt pressed against my right shoulder-blade in prone position and my forefinger wrapped around the trigger guard,  I looked through the back sight to the fore sight and unto the target 100 meters away. Squeezing the trigger, hearing the sound of the round leave the barrel and feeling the recoil of the rifle ushered in a new dispensation and realisation of warfare. My first experience at the shooting range wasn’t a pleasant one. I probably did not hit my target as well as I should and the ferocity of the exercise made me ill. In the course of the years in…

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[dropcap]I[/dropcap]n hindsight, I would have spent more time thinking about the name to call my first website. Then, I was very excited at the prospect of establishing a web presence but was armed with little knowledge about how to go about it. It was more like a trial and error thing. fumbling codes here and there and visualising the result was enough fun for me then. I did not have anything to promote or sell, so probably that approach was fine as there was nothing at stake. But today, for each site you design,some thought be given to choosing a…

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Proverbs 18:24 – A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother The ideal situation is for a spouse to confidently say ‘ I married my best friend’ or at least ‘I married my friend’. When the chips are down, you’ll need a friend to stand by you, to confide in and comfort you. Love is important in dating and marriage, but it is very important that you marry your friend.Among other factors to take into consideration when choosing a spouse, ‘friendship’ should rank high on the list. It…

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[dropcap]M[/dropcap]arriage is consummated usually on the wedding night when the man knows his wife just as Adam knew Eve and brought fought Cain. Everything God created was good, in fact all things created were very good including sex. Sex is meant to be pleasurable and enjoyed by married couples within the confines of marriage, but how often has sexual fulfilment been a thorn in the flesh in otherwise good marriages. Some may consider discussing sex a no-go area, others may feel shy to talk about it with their spouse while some deep folks may even regard is as sinful. Sex…

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[dropcap]L[/dropcap]ighting a unity candle is sometimes incorporated in wedding ceremonies to symbolize two live coming together as one. In the early days, the love between the husband and wife radiates but after a while it begins to dwindle with each argument, misunderstanding and challenge that life brings. Marriages don’t just pack up all of a sudden, is a gradual process. It is vital that both parties are determined to make the marriage work. Both parties, and not one party, need to be committed to making it work and to keep the love aflame in the marriage.

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