Author: Pele Odiase

Pele began his education in Nigeria before moving to the UK for a masters degree and subsequently a PhD in computer science. The sharp contrast in life and morals in the UK motivated him to start his blog, a website dedicated to sharing candid and virtuous views to enable individuals and families maximize their potentials in life, relationships and finances.

[dropcap]P[/dropcap]eople often wonder and ask when the right time to enter into a dating relationship is. Are you one of them or are you already in a relationship? Is there a particular age at which you are regarded qualified to date? Are there things to consider before asking that girl of your dreams out or is this the right time to say yes to that hunk you so much adore?

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Are you a teenager or do you have teenage children, relatives or friends? This age group is significant in the growth and development process of an individual. At this stage in life, puberty is experienced and ones character is either made or broken. There are folks that dread children in this age group because of the crimes they commit, disrespect to elders, disruption and destruction of public services, shop lifting, sexual perversions and hyper activity, drug addiction and the high rates of truancy. In this article the author talks about the significance of this age bracket and the need for…

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[dropcap]A[/dropcap]ll men are dogs, they are all only after one thing. Have you heard anyone make this statement? If you haven’t, I have heard many women make this statements or statements similar to this. Most of these women have either been in terrible marriages, sexually abused or are currently dating fools – . While there may be cogent reasons behind these statements, they are far from the truth. From their experiences, they have come to the conclusion that men are sexually indiscriminate and insensitive to their feelings after having had sex with them.

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Not again! You’ve just broken up from another horrible relationship that left you bruised and battered. You  can’t seem to get a grip of your emotions anymore. The guy you trusted and believed in turned out to be a ferocious beast with the ultimate desire to get under your skirts. Now things are clearer and the warnings you ignored from friends begin to taunt you. Perhaps you should have been more open to listen to friends and siblings. But how could you, you were in love. He swept you off you feet with his charms and sweet talk. He was…

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[dropcap]W[/dropcap]hile some people maintain a dating relationship solely for companionship and sex – “friends with benefits”, others seek genuine love and intimacy that would eventually lead into marriage. If you fall in the former school of thought, the question whether speaking and kissing in tongues go together would not arise at all. But if you are in the later and have noble intentions while dating, it is imperative that you establish clear boundaries with regards to getting turned on and being sexually aroused.

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[dropcap]D[/dropcap]ating is regarded as a series of engagements to go out socially with another person most often out of romantic interest. Do you know any one dating at the moment? Probably this definition would bring a few people you know into focus. Ideally people who are of age, mature and seeking a lasting relationship that would eventually lead to marriage, start the process by dating a spouse material. But what do we have in our society today? The whole shebang! Anyone and everyone seem to be dating regardless of age and maturity. From the world’s point of view, dating is…

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[dropcap]D[/dropcap]ating is necessary because it provides the opportunity to learn about oneself and it creates a safe environment to discover others in preparation for marriage. However the society we live in has given dating a different meaning. People without any intention of getting married date and kids at 12 find it comfortable to do so. Sex is normally the first agenda on the dating to-do list, while many get bruised and battered and end up with heart breaks. This doesn’t distract the fact that dating is necessary for those that are qualified to date.

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